#9

And yes, he satisfied 90% of the qualities i wanted! :D

LOL the other 10% is kinda hard to attain :X

Because it consists of "preferably rich, own big houses and cars, treat me like a tai tai"

hahahaha just a dream alright, who doesn;t want to be rich haha!!

Therefore, he doesnt have to satisfy those haha!!

i'd rather have his love than his wealth, but people will still wish they have both alright? hahaha

yupyup, so if you want a boyfriend, go and try this haha!! :D

One more story.

"Today, my dad is the best dad I could ask for. He’s a loving husband to my mom (always making her laugh), he’s been to every one of my soccer games since I was 5 (I’m 17 now), and he provides for our family as a construction foreman. This morning when I was searching through my dad’s toolbox for a pliers, I found a dirty folded up paper at the bottom. It was an old journal entry in my dad’s handwriting dated exactly one month before the day I was born. It reads, “I am eighteen years old, an alcoholic who is failing out of college, a past cutter, and a child abuse victim with a criminal record of auto theft. And next month, ‘teen father’ will be added to the list. But I swear I will make things right for my little girl. I will be the dad I never had.” And I don’t know how he did it, but he did it. MMT"

Certain times i would think, probably these people went through a lot of hardship, thats why they are able to pick themselves up.

I thought again.

Precisely because they went through wrong paths, therefore picking themselves up is harder than normal people. And so you have to applaud and encourage them :)

Well done! :)

Read the one below from

http://www.marcandangel.com/2011/10/02/things-to-stop-caring-about-today/#more-392

Stop caring about what everyone else has.

When you catch yourself comparing yourself to a colleague, neighbor, friend, or someone famous, stop! Realize that you are different, with different strengths – strengths these other people don’t possess. Take a moment to reflect on all the awesome abilities you have and to be grateful for all the good things in your life.

The problem with many of us is that we think we’ll be happy when we reach a certain level in life — a level we see others operating at – your boss with her corner office, that friend of a friend who owns a mansion on the beach, etc. Unfortunately, it takes awhile before you get there, and when you get there you might have a new destination in mind.

Instead, appreciate where you are and what you have right now. Try comparing yourself to those who have less, those who are dealing with tragedy, and those who are struggling to survive. Hopefully it opens your eyes to all the things you should be grateful for.

It always happens, yup.

I always can't help but compare myself to others.

When i see some hot girls down the street, when i see some rich ass spending their money, when i see people with good results, i can totally compare anything and everything

and im trying to stop now

in this realistic world, people will try to compare you to other without u trying to do so

so dont bother about comparing yourself, save that for others to help you with

and you know you always hate people doing comparisons

for example, your mother comparing you to your siblings/peers

so why not curb that bad habit first

i might not eradicate that completely, but i'll try to lessen it :)